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Understanding Sexess
Learn about the divisions - how and why they work
Prevention
Education is crucial in preventing sex-related crimes and other harmful encounters.
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Education - We understand the importance of presenting enjoyable education. People learn best when happy and engaged.
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Enhancing competence leads to improved performance.
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Delivering comprehensive education engagingly and enjoyably facilitates better retention.
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Encouraging hands-on engagement during classes promotes sustained interest.
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The Prevention division hosts adult education events led by qualified professionals specializing in engaging topics. Through comprehensive education, we aim to prevent sex-related crimes, suicides, unintended pregnancies, and lifelong traumas.
Sex has a profound impact on various aspects of our lives, including mental and emotional well-being, physical health, religious beliefs, political attitudes, and societal norms.
Some uninformed statements by public figures only perpetuate misconceptions and highlight the need for education. These include Senators supporting taxes citing tampons giving orgasms and Idaho Representatives suggesting swallowing pills with cameras to look at babies in the womb.
Pregnancy-related myths are used to rationalize sexual violence, suggesting that women can control when they conceive and only become pregnant when they are in love and sexually satisfied. This dangerous mindset deflects blame from the perpetrators and undermines the experiences of victims.
Baseless accusations, such as swimming drowning a fetus and spicy food falling the developing baby, perpetuate harmful stereotypes and lead to unjust treatment of women.
Many individuals still feel fear and shame when reporting incidents of abuse or violence, which serves as a barrier to seeking support and justice. Men seem to avoid reporting due to stereotypes and possible ridicule from peers. Young men are particularly vulnerable.
Furthermore, it is disheartening that mortuaries are often reluctant to hire men due to concerns about the desecration of corpses. Children are sadly frequent victims of abuse and sex-related crimes. There have even been cases of coma patients becoming pregnant due to sexual assault. We must recognize that clothing, intoxication, and lifestyle, are not asking for it.
Recovery
No shame or guilt to the victim, separating you from the incident (you are not wrong, gross, devalued), empowerment and self-image, reconnecting to your body in healthy ways, rediscovering your sassy sexy self for your future love life, you can have an awesome life so don't quit!!
This comprehensive program provides essential education to prevent abuse and unplanned pregnancies and helps them reclaim their identity and separate themselves from the traumatic experiences they have endured.
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Some may not understand our unconventional tactics but the internalization, shame, and guilt, often felt after an incident profoundly affects self-esteem, self-image, and other perceptions - including future relationships and family life. Finding acceptance and value in yourself and your sexuality is essential to living a full life!
​As founders of Sexess, our personal experiences have shaped our mission. We have endured abuse, including childhood sexual abuse, domestic violence, and sexual harassment. These experiences motivate us to provide the support we needed. Unfortunately, we have seen how few individuals receive the assistance they need to escape danger. This strengthens our determination to make a difference. At Sexess, our commitment is to ensure that victims have access to the help and support they deserve.
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Sexess is dedicated to providing support for survivors of domestic violence and sexual abuse. Our team of professionals is committed to helping individuals on their journey to healing and recovery. We offer a safe and inclusive space to access resources and assistance. A community that stands against violence and advocates for the rights and well-being of all individuals.
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We empower individuals to heal and reconnect with their bodies after experiencing trauma.
We provide comprehensive support and resources to victims of sex crimes and domestic violence. Our goal is to ensure that victims can lead safe and stable lives.
Our support and advocacy services fills the gap of available support by offering personalized trauma coaching, safe stays, and financial assistance. We prioritize suicide prevention and offer an unintended pregnancy prevention program.
Research is a vital aspect of our work. We study the causes and solutions of sex crimes to develop effective prevention strategies and targeted interventions. By educating individuals on the complexities of sexual relationships, we aim to combat the manipulation and control associated with sex-related fear, shame, and hate.
Research
Issues & Connections
Within our community, there are interconnected issues that contribute to various problems, including domestic violence, sex-related crimes, animal-related abuses, homelessness, addiction, trafficking, suicides, pregnancy, and flaws in laws and punishments. These issues are complicated by systemic and personal prejudices such as race, class, and gender. It is crucial to establish a strong network to address these challenges and provide survivors with the support they need to rebuild their lives.
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By analyzing behaviors, we can identify signs that can help prevent crimes.
Testing solutions through research allows us to identify the most effective outcomes.
Meta studies enable the comparison of multiple programs and their results from around the world.
Advocacy
Engaging in open conversations about issues helps dispel myths and misconceptions.
Increasing public knowledge and acceptance supports trauma recovery, legal support, and encourages victims to come forward. Providing the necessary help and support to victims.
Prevention
Integrating research, education, and advocacy efforts enables the development of effective preventive measures and attitudes. Reducing the number of victims contributes to the improvement of communities and society as a whole.
By reducing the number of offenders, we alleviate the strain on the court system, law enforcement, incarceration facilities, and healthcare.
Victim services
Assisting victims in their recovery process helps them regain normal, productive lives.
Recovered victims often become advocates and support others in similar situations.
Implementing initiatives for suicide and addiction prevention.
Research
Sexlytics - Comprehensive Study of Sex-related Issues
We will examine various issues related to sex, including toxic aspects of masculinity and femininity. Additionally, we will investigate the correlation and causation between sex and violence, such as shootings, incels, rape, domestic violence, power dynamics, and entitlement.
Our research will focus on studying social constructs surrounding sex, safety and health concerns, and the disparities between current and ideal standards. We will explore biases and differences in definitions of genders and sexualities.
We aim to address the notion that sexual prowess equates to worth, debunking harmful beliefs about ownership, wealth, and double standards for women.
Moreover, we will analyze the manipulation of sex for political gain and its influence on law-making.
Teaching
Sexpertly - Promoting Education and Expertise
Through workshops, masterminds, challenges, reviews, and personalized sex coaching, we aim to increase awareness of individuals' needs and the impact of our sex lives on other aspects of life.
Our goal is to replace unsatisfying sexual experiences with empowering training that helps individuals reach their sexual potential. This can have a positive impact on overall well-being, including mental and physical health. By adopting evidence-based practices, individuals can enjoy a better quality of life.
Support
Sexify - Application of Findings and Implementation of Changes
Using our research findings, we will address the following aspects:
Sociology/behavior and cognition, Cultivating humility and enthusiasm for neglected topics, Facilitating religious change, Promoting health and safety, Exploring spirituality and intellect, Encouraging self-control and reflection
Fostering wisdom and overall well-being,
Our goal is to create a more just and prosperous society by enhancing understanding of sex and its implications. We aim to empower individuals and society as a whole by nurturing character development and promoting informed and enlightened perspectives.
​Tracking Success
Sexess measures success through:
Preventing potential crimes through consent and sex education. Promoting healthy sexual exploration and reducing sexually motivated crimes. Reducing convictions, improving offender tracking, and easing strains on transitional housing. Fostering a safer community and reducing fear. Addressing mental health issues, combating bigotry, and minimizing trauma-related addictions. Lowering unintended pregnancies and abortion rates through anatomy and physiology awareness. Potentially reducing trafficking and prostitution activities. Alleviating strains on the local donation pool and minimizing competition between nonprofits. Contributing a $20+ million economic impact and creating job opportunities for locals.
Enhancing public health and safety.
Improving relationship statuses and reducing divorce rates.