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Sexess is a sex positive nonprofit supporting survivors of domestic violence and sexual abuse through Prevention and Recovery.

Areas of Action -

Advocacy, Prevention, Research, Education, Direct Victim Services

Health and Human Services -

Trauma Coaching, Safe Stays, Moving Expenses, Legal Fees, Suicide Prevention, and Unintended Pregnancy Resources

Public Safety -

Crime Prevention/Reduction, Victim Resources

Education -

Adult Sex Education topics such as better sex, consent, and understanding bodies

Theme - Be like Betty and Ruth!

Betty White was against sexism, racism, and cruelty, but also promoted sex positivity, speaking in innuendo and flat out dirty!

Dr. Ruth was very controversial when she openly talked about sex but believed proper sex education was the key to many issues! 

Make Betty and Ruth proud! Fight abuse with the power of sex positive education! 

Some may not understand our unconventional tactics but the internalization, shame and guilt, often felt after an incident profoundly effects self esteem, self-image, and other perceptions - including future relationships and family life. Finding acceptance and value in yourself and your sexuality is essential to living a full life!

Plus, sexual positivity education brings understanding to consent, anatomy, physiology, and teaches skills and techniques which can prevent abuse!

Messages -

Recovery - No shame or guilt to the victim, separating you from the incident, you are not wrong, gross, devalued, empowerment and self image, reconnect to your body in healthy ways, rediscover your sassy sexy self for your future love life,

you can have an awesome life so don't quit!!

Prevention - Education, communication, consent, anatomy and physiology, awareness, and calling out bad behavior!

Wouldn't you want a sex coach?

Like sports coaches in their respective fields, sex coaches help you enhance your skills and experiences to reach your full potential!

Not every coach is a Lombardi, but there are many effective coaches for each specialty. Although therapy is worthwhile, it takes time and deals with the past. Coaching focuses on the current situation to produce a better future. 

Questions for you - 

What is sexual autonomy? What is the significance of sexual autonomy? What boundaries should be placed on sexual freedom? Who determines these boundaries? Are they qualified to make choices on our behalf? Should religion regulate sexual activity? Which religion would we use to decide boundaries/regulations? Should governments have a role in regulating sexual activity? What are the repercussions of stigmatizing individuals based on their sexual behavior? Can regulations or penalties curb sexual behavior? Are current consequences, such as registering predators, sufficient? What is in the best interests of our children?

What is grooming? Who engages in it?  How should grooming be punished? How does tradition influence the future? Is progressiveness preferable? When is it appropriate to pursue change? Who benefits from the regulation of sexual activity? Who benefits from engaging in sexual activity? What does sexual freedom encompass? What boundaries are appropriate? What is fetishizing? Who is fetishized? What are the repercussions of sex solely for reproduction? What can be done about fetishizing birth?

Help Needed -

Ruckup Media for our website and Google Ad Grant management - $2,000 per month

Commando for PPC ad management  - $3,000 per month

Domenick Nati for Public relations and interviews - $3,000 per month

Small expenses - $1,000 one time costs

Social media manager - filming, editing, posting, - still needed - $2,000 per month

Brandon Lee Gowton
Dee Dee Sorvino
Jennifer Messina
David Jones


Like Dr. Ruth, but spicier. Sexess is a tax-exempt 501(c)(3) charity, registered with the Washington Secretary of State, and licensed in Spokane County.

In Spokane County, there is a lack of resources that provide support and financial assistance to victims of sex crimes and domestic violence. Many individuals in danger or recovering from traumatic incidents are unable to access the help they urgently need. There are very few businesses providing affordable public sex education classes. We aim to fill this gap by offering a comprehensive range of victim and public services.

Instead of solely relying on local donations, we generate revenue from a global audience by providing sex-positive training and coaching on various topics. Our interdisciplinary approach aims to transform the understanding of sex, address intersectional issues, and apply practical sex education. Through public engagement, relevant content, and conversations, we empower individuals to live purposeful lives while addressing societal issues.

Unlike Dr. Ruth, Sexess doesn't engage in therapy, which treats dysfunction from the past. Sexess only offers coaching and peer support groups. A coach helps individuals envision and create the future they desire. Whether for sports or sex, coaches provide guidance, support, and practical strategies to help clients overcome obstacles and achieve their goals. Both coaches and therapists play a crucial role in facilitating long-lasting behavior changes but there are tons of therapists, only a few accredited sexologist coaches. 

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